Thriving in the Waiting Season
Waiting can be an active season of growth if we channel our energies into reflection and goal-setting. The Bible encourages us to seek the Lord during these times, as 'The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him' (Lamentations 3:25-26). Similarly, Philippians 3:13-14 urges us to press on toward the goal, which requires both reflection on what lies behind and a focus on what lies ahead. As Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, 'In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.' Improving our skills becomes a tangible way to prepare for the future. Whether it is through study, as advised in 2 Timothy 2:15, or through preparation like David's instruction to Solomon in 1 Chronicles 22:16, we are called to act with foresight. Moreover, building connections is key. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 and Proverbs 27:17 denote the importance of companionship and mutual growth, while Luke 16:9 suggests using our resources to build relationships. Finally, volunteering reflects the love of Christ, as Hebrews 13:16 and Galatians 6:2 teach us the joy of sharing with others and carrying each other's burdens, and Matthew 25:35-40 emphasizes the blessing of serving 'the least of these.'
Navigating Times of Exhaustion
Exhaustion can leave us feeling depleted, but the Bible offers solace and practical advice for renewal. Jesus himself invites us to find rest in Him, saying, 'Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest' (Matthew 11:28). This invitation echoes through Psalm 23:2-3, where we are led to green pastures and quiet waters that refresh our souls. And as Psalm 127:2 reminds us, God grants sleep to those He loves. Seeking support from our community is also biblically endorsed; as Galatians 6:2 and Exodus 18:17-18 show, sharing our burdens and delegating tasks can ease our load. Furthermore, Isaiah 40:31 promises that those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength, soaring on wings like eagles. Rest is not just a physical need but a spiritual one, as demonstrated when Jesus encouraged His disciples to come away and rest after a busy time of ministry (Mark 6:31), and Ecclesiastes 4:6 teaches us that peace is better than toil. Psalm 4:8 offers the final piece of reassurance, as we are reminded that we can lie down and sleep in peace, for the Lord alone makes us dwell in safety.
Biblical Perspective on Drinking
When it comes to drinking, the Bible encourages moderation and self-control. Ephesians 5:18 specifically warns against getting drunk on wine, leading to debauchery, and Proverbs 23:20-21 admonishes us to avoid overindulgence. The fruit of the Spirit, as listed in Galatians 5:22-23, includes self-control, suggesting that our behaviors, including drinking, should reflect our spiritual commitments. Yet, Scripture does not forbid the enjoyment of wine; in fact, Paul suggests to Timothy a little wine for stomach ailments (1 Timothy 5:23), and Ecclesiastes 9:7 recognizes the enjoyment of life's pleasures. The miracle at the wedding in Cana, where Jesus turns water into wine (John 2:1-11), further acknowledges the role of wine in celebration. However, we are cautioned to consider the well-being of others, as Romans 14:21 advises against doing anything that might cause another to stumble, and 1 Corinthians 10:31 reminds us to do everything for the glory of God. Hospitality, including the sharing of food and drink, is encouraged, as in 1 Peter 4:9, but always with consideration for others.
FAQ
Q: What should a man do in his waiting season?
A: During a waiting season, it's valuable to reflect on past experiences, set new goals, improve skills, network, volunteer, maintain physical and mental health, stay positive, explore new interests, and plan for the future.
Q: What are some tips for when feeling exhausted?
A: It is important to prioritize self-care, rest, seek support from others, and practice self-compassion. The Bible encourages finding strength in the Lord and taking time for rest and rejuvenation.
Q: Can we drink according to the Bible?
A: The Bible teaches moderation and self-control in drinking. While it acknowledges the enjoyment of wine and other beverages, it also cautions against the negative consequences of excessive alcohol consumption.
Q: So we can get drunk just not on wine?
A: The Bible's warning against drunkenness in Ephesians 5:18 is not limited to wine but applies to all forms of excessive alcohol consumption. It emphasizes the importance of self-control and wisdom in all aspects of life.
